Montana Standard Obituary

Below is a copy of the Obituary and Guest Book Comments from the Montana Standard, Butte, Montana. PJD

Mike and Ann Torpy, both 61
05/20 & 06/15/1947 ~ 03/12/2009
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Mike and Ann Torpy, both 61, died tragically on the afternoon of March 12, 2009, in a traffic accident near Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada.
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Mike was the first child of Thomas F. and Marian Torpy, born on May 20, 1947, in Kalispell. Raised in Butte, he attended Immaculate Conception Grade School and Butte High School, graduating in 1965. He went on to study at Montana Tech, Carroll College and graduated from Montana State University with a degree in microbiology.
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At Utah State University he attended graduate school, earning a master’s degree in microbiology and a doctorate in environmental engineering, as well as a master’s of business administration.
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Before attending graduate school, he served in the Army from 1971 to 1973.
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He was employed as an engineering manager at Hawk Consulting/Alyeska Pipeline at the time of his death.
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An avid outdoorsman, he enthusiastically fished the lakes, rivers, streams of Alaska. Mike also enjoyed Irish history, home brewing, attending Irish gatherings in Anchorage, and playing the button accordion.
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Ann was born on June 15, 1947, in Townsend, to Joseph and Rose Devine. She obtained her high school diploma in Great Falls, and received her bachelor of arts in elementary education from Carroll College, Helena. Later she earned another bachelor of arts as a Montessori teacher. She was teaching at Denali Elementary in Anchorage as a Montessori teacher.
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Ann’s many passions included her children (family and students), knitting, cooking, walking and reading.
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Mike and Ann were married in Great Falls, on Aug. 22, 1970, and lived in various cities in the United States. In 1996, they settled with their family In Anchorage.
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Forever cherished, Mike and Ann are sadly missed by their children, Kevin Joseph (Jennifer) and Eamonn Jakob (their first grandchild), Matthew Thomas (Jennifer), Conor Michael (Sherry), Stephanie Ann, Kathleen Rose.
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Ann was preceded in death by her father, Joseph Devine. She is survived by her mother, Rose, Great Falls; sister, Cathy Jupka (Jim), and Karen, John and Dan, Bozeman; brother, Pat (Jereice) Karen and Thomas, Bozeman; and brother, Dennis (Lisa) and Joseph, Justin and Kelly, Great Falls; as well as numerous cousins in Alaska and Iowa.
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Mike was preceded in death by his mother, Marian, and his brother, Dan.
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He is survived by his father, Thomas F. Torpy; sister, Peggy Riordan (Emmett), Mollie, Ryan, and Matthew; brother, Tom; sister, Jayne Honey (Dean), Teresa Knott and Brenan Honey; sisterinlaw, Eileen Torpy, (Jon and Monica), (Ben and Ursula), (Danielle and Bob); cousins, JoAnn and Ralph Anderson,Sister Lynn Lester, Jim and Wilene Lester, Rick and Nancy Foote, Lori and Gary Paull, Ed and Patty Armstrong, and Michelle Malkovich, as well as numerous other cousins in the U.S. and in Ireland
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A memorial service will be held at noon Wednesday, March 18, with visitation at 11 a.m. at the Immaculate Conception Church in Butte.
A memorial celebration will also be held in Anchorage, Alaska, on March 22.
A memorial Mass will be offered in CarrickonSuir, County Tipperary, Ireland.
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Memorials: Stephanie and Katie Torpy college fund, c/o 1401 Gwenn Dr., Anchorage, Alaska 99501, or to a charity of donor’s choice.
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GUEST BOOK:
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Peggy Walters wrote on March 23, 2009:
Jane,
My mother informed me of the death of Mike and his wife. Though I haven't seen you since grade school, I am thinking of you and your family and sending my prayers. God Bless.
Peg Walters
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Marianne Dewing Moe (emmmoe@aol.com) wrote on March 20, 2009:
Rose, Kathy and all,
Please accept my sincere condolences. Ann and I were roommates all through Carroll and in each other's weddings. She was a dear dear friend as was Mike. We had not been in each others lives since they moved from Chicago but that friendship was always in our hearts. I had so hoped to reconnect with them this year. Please know that you are in our prayers and thoughts. Marianne and Family.
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Peggy O'Neill Wolff (peggywolff@cox.net) wrote on March 19, 2009:
Tommy,
So sorry to hear about your brother and Ann. I remember them fondly from our early years. Take care.
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Lori Martinich (lmartinich@bresnan.net) wrote on March 19, 2009:
Peg, Emmett, & Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Pat Starcevich & Lori Martinich
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Benjamin and Ursula Torpy (ubtorpy@msn.com) wrote on March 19, 2009:
Mike and Ann will be sorely missed as the finest sorts humanity has to offer. For so long we have looked up to them as the model example of a strong marriage, loving parents and, for me personally, an eversupportive aunt and uncle. I feel blessed that I was able to see Mike in February and that my son Thomas met him for the first and only time then. Thomas now has a healthy addiction to Doritos on account of Mike's intervention into his melancholy over his presence at Grandpa's house (which he now loves). Grandpa Tom, I know that this is a foul strike by the fates to a man who has weathered as many years as yourself, but I need you to remain strong, if not for yourself, then for my own sake. Tommy, Peg, and Jane, ever strong as you are, accept my condolences at the loss of a sibling. Equally, please hang in there cousins Kevin, Matt, Connor, Stephanie and Katey. We, the family, will help to bear the enormous weight of grief that has been deposited on our shoulders by the authors of this tragedy, but your shoulders will bear the lion's share despite our best intentions. I'm sorry we couldn't be there. Ursula and I are praying for the family as this wound cuts deep into our hearts.
Love Ben, Ursula, Thomas and Sophia
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Lynn Lester (lynn.lester@clarke.edu) wrote on March 18, 2009:
I send my prayers and blessings to you as you mourn the death of your parents. My heart goes out to you in deepest sympathy. Mike was a dear cousin to me. I took care of him when Marion and Tom went square dancing. Ann and I always enjoyed talking about teaching. My remembrance of Mike and Ann is that they were joyfully happy together and so proud of their children.
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Larry Bowser (lt_bowser@sbcglobal.net) wrote on March 18, 2009:
I feel blessed that I grew up on the same street as Mike and our time together from Kindergarten on. I will always remember his big friendly smile every time we would meet again in Butte or Alaska. He will be missed. I want to express my Sincere Condolences to Mike & Ann's Families from all of my family.
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Ed & Patti Armstrong (epjal@msn.com) wrote on March 18, 2009:
To Tom and all the Torpys'
Mike and Anne's loss is hard to comprehend, but we know that their time on earth was filled with happiness and joy in their own lives and lives of everyone they touched in their time here on earth.
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David & Lisa Goldsworthy (eden.goldsworthy@gmail.com) wrote on March 18, 2009:
Jayne,Dean,Tom,Tommy,Peg and Family:
We are so very saddened by your tragic loss. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Much Love David & Lisa
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Debbie Malkovich Putnam (putnamd@billings.k12.mt.us) wrote on March 18, 2009:
I did not know this had happened until last night when Carolyn called to tell me. My deepest sympathy. I remember Mike in our childhood and have great memories of both he and Ann. They are in my prayers.
Love Debbie
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Bill & Mickee Rogers (billnmick@cableone.net) wrote on March 18, 2009:
Peggy and Emmett,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. You will be in our prayers.
Bill & Mickee
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Tammie Celli (tjcelli@hotmail.com) wrote on March 18, 2009:
I am deeply saddened to hear of your great loss. In your time of healing, trust in God to help you through. You all are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Tammie & Kaleb Celli
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Lisa Pesanti (mtmxmom1067@gmail.com) wrote on March 18, 2009:
Dear Emmett and Peggy and Family,
I am so sorry for the tragic loss of your brother and sister in law. It is always such a
shock to lose loved ones so suddenly. My thoughts an prayers are with all of you.
May your prescious memories of their lives ease your loss.
Sincerely,
Lisa Pesanti, Bob Johns
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Keith and Diane Honey (honeyfam@aol.com) wrote on March 18, 2009:
Jayne,Dean,Tom,Tommy,Peg and Family:
We are so saddened by the loss of Mike and Ann. They were both such great people and were so kind and generous to everyone. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Keith and Diane
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Mary Lou Fitzpatrick (blufitzpatrick@aol.com) wrote on March 17, 2009:
To the Torpy Family,
I am very sorry for your loss! May God hold you in the palm of His hand in this trying time. I was a classmate of Mike and then Tom at IC. I had a very nice visit with him in uptown Butte last summer as he talked about his life in Alaska. He was excited about taking his dad up to Alaska for a visit. It was very good to see him after many years. I will keep you in my prayers.
Mary Lou Fitzpatrick
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Lori Strah Gittens (xrayiz@bresnan.net) wrote on March 17, 2009:
Peggy (and family) -
am so sorry to hear about your brother and his wife. I remember how much fun you had going to visit them years ago when they lived in Logan. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all. Please take care, and God bless.
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Tana (Davis) Loessberg (tanaloessberg@hotmail.com) wrote on March 17, 2009:
To the Torpy Family,
I am so very sad to hear of the loss of Mike and Ann. I am glad that in the past year we were able to catch up on Mike's life and see what a wonderful family he and Ann raised. He was so proud of them. My deepest sympathies to all of you.
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Oak's Mom and Dad (rometcalfe@yahoo.com) wrote on March 17, 2009:
Kevin, we are so so sorry about this horrible tragedy. It is so sad that your little guy will grow up not knowing his grandparents. Hopefully, you can share all of your happy memories with him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and all of your loved ones.
Bob and Rose Lee Metcalfe
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Randy & Sharon (Hastings) Guizzo (guizzo3@msn.com) wrote on March 17, 2009:
Torpy Family,
From all of the Hastings Family, please accept our deepest sympathies during this time. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
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jack obrien (ebt2@gci.net) wrote on March 17, 2009:
Peggy and families I am very sad to learn of this. Peggy I met Mike in Anchorage at a basketball game. Reminded me of you and made me smile. God bless you all.
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bob and donna (galpin1@bresnan.net) wrote on March 17, 2009:
tom peggy and all the family, we are sorry about your loss.ourprayers will be with you all. GOD BLESS
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Jim and Sue Polich (jtp@bresnan.net) wrote on March 17, 2009:
Dear Mr. Torpy, Tom, Janie and Peggy...This is terrible news. I hope you all find the strength to get through another, sad tragedy. Good luck to you all, our prayers are with you.
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John and Pam Logsdon (jdlpal@comcast.net) wrote on March 17, 2009:
Our hearts are broken for Kevin, Matthew, Conor, Stephanie and Katie. The Torpy's were our neighbors and friends in Woodinville, WA. Our boys were best friends and still are. We have so many fond memories of two very special people. We will miss them dearly.
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Gary & Vina Dugan wrote on March 17, 2009:
Dear Tom, Peg, Tom, Jayne, & Family,
Please accept our deepest sympathy. It is so sad to loose those we love, but know that they are in God's hands! Our prayers and thoughts are with you all.
Vina & Gary
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Linda (Davis) Dixon (corvettejd@comcast.net) wrote on March 17, 2009:
Tom,Tommy,Jayne and Peggy:
I cannot begin to express the sorrow and sympathy I feel over the sudden passing of Mike and Ann. I was reunited with my "Oldest Friend" thru email this past year, where he reminded me of all the wonderful experiences of growing up in Butte. His generous heart and kindness was so alive. I know how proud he was of his Family and the excitement of being a Grandpa. The Torpy's wil always be like 2nd Family..my deepest sympathy to Tom and Family.
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Leaona Doyle Anderwald (anderw04@rfwave.net) wrote on March 17, 2009:
Tom and Torpy Family: I am so sorry about the loss of your brother and sisterinlaw. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Leaona
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Cheryl duToit (cdutoit@mtech.edu) wrote on March 17, 2009:
Peggy, Emmett & Family I am so very sorry for another loss of a loved one in your family. You are all in my prayers and I will be seeing you at the visitation and the funeral. May God and the Holy Spirit bless you with the peace of knowing that both Mike and Ann are surrounded by the love of God and all of his angels now and are completely at peace. With Love, Cheryl and Girls
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Glen & Patti Rafish wrote on March 17, 2009:
Peggy, Emmett & Family, we are so very sorry for the loss of your brother and sisterinlaw. Keeping you in our thoughts.
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Laura Lee Dunlap wrote on March 17, 2009:
Peggy and entire Torpy family: Just wanted to let you know, I am so sorry for the loss of your brother and his wife.
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Rob Foote (Rfoote@flymissoula.com) wrote on March 17, 2009:
I took my confirmation name from Mike. As a young boy in Butte,Mike was my hero cousin. Always kind with whatever time and attention you needed from him.I did not know him as an adult but as our uncle Joe would always say he was a good son of bitchin kid.
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Mike McArthur (oocheniver@msn.com) wrote on March 17, 2009:
Mike was a good childhood friend, as were his brothers and sisters.His life was as predictably full and worthwhile as his youth. Condolences to his family
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Oak (rmetcalfe@mt.gov) wrote on March 17, 2009:
My heart goes out to Kevin, Peggy, and all of the Torpy clan. You were the first group of people I met when I moved to Butte many years ago and welcomed me heartily. I am so sorry for your loss.

Comments from the Anchorage Daily News Guest Book

Below are the Comments from the Guest Book, from the family, friends and associates who had visited the On-line Obituary for Ann & Mike Torpy - originally from the Anchorage Daily News.
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Ann & Mike are two very special people who I will always miss. They left me with many good memories and examples of how to live life. Ann will always be my big sister and Mike her sole mate forever. I am blessed for all the times that we were able to spend together and visits on the phone. They have made the world a better place. - Pat Devine
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April 02, 2009
I remember Mike as a brother and father figure to his brother Tom in our Carroll College days. There may be some comfort in the thought that these two wonderful spirits are still together on their journey.
~ mike schaefer, irvine, California
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April 01, 2009
Hi Kevin - like Keri, I'm sorry I never met your parents. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. With warmest regards,
~ Denise Herzog, Fairbanks, Alaska
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April 01, 2009
I first met your parents in Logan, Utah, around 1973-74 where Mike and I were grad students in the Utah State University environmental water quality program. They lived in the married housing unit on campus. We enjoyed trading fishing stories (when we weren't actually fishing)and socializing with other engineering students and our professors. We both dent in different directions and didn't hook up again until much later, maybe mid-90's, when Mike landed a contract to do work for Alyeska Pipeline Service Co. in my hometown Valdez. So again we joined up to enjoy working together as well as many sharing a few more wonderful fishing adventures after work. In time, Mary came down to Valdez for the summer and joined Mike, and we had many good times together barbecuing fresh caught salmon and halibut, chasing it with a homebrew(I would challenge Mike to name the ingredients in my homebrew.). Kevin, you might recall these days as you were a part of many of these events.
Kim and I were deeply saddened to learn of the tragic accident in Vancouver. We send our deepest condolences to all of you. I will always remember the great times we had together, Mike's big laugh and quick wit, and the look Mary would give him whenever she thought he went a little too far with one of his tales. We feel blessed to have known these two wonderful people.
~ Tom and Kim McCarty, Valdez, Alaska
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March 30, 2009
Dear Children of Mike and Ann,
I just found out about the tragic death of your parents. My thoughts and prayers go out to you all. Ann went to GF Cental with me. She was such a kick. After her Father died I remember how brave she was
and showed many of us how to handle such a loss that we were too young to understand.
I will keep you all in my prayers.
~ Jane Weber Christman, Dutton, Montana
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March 28, 2009
I was a student in Ann Torpy's class from 1997-1999, and I was deeply sorry to hear of her death. She remains, ten years after I left her class, the best teacher I've had. Mrs. Torpy was the reason I chose Denali and, though my memories of her class are fuzzy at best, her supreme kindness still shines through the haze of memory.
I remember when I left her class she gave me a book (a real, adult-level one in my 3rd grade eyes) pertaining to my interest in shipwrecks. In the years since, I've thought that gesture demonstrated her ability to teach without being condescending, a simple-sounding ability made near impossible by differences in age, social status, and education level.
She will be ever-missed.
~ Sam H-K, Greencastle, Indiana
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March 25, 2009
Though I never met your parents Kevin, I can only imagine how wonderful and beautiful they were because it shines through in you. Please know how very much you're loved. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
~ Keri DePalma, Durango, Colorado
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March 23, 2009
As the parent of a Denali child, I can't fully express the impact this tragedy has had on our school. And then to imagine what you, their family, must feel is heartbreaking. Your parents touched so many lives with their love and kindness. Our deepest sympathies and regrets.
~ Cathy Deak, Anchorage, Alaska
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March 23, 2009
I had the pleasure of working with Ann for four years at Denali and as an even greater gift, she taught my daughter Presley for three years. She was a wonderful, kind person and helped instill a love of school in our daughter that will never fade.
~ Derek Coryell, Helotes, Texas
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March 23, 2009
Dear Kevin. Matthew, Conor, Stephanie and Katie,
We wish there were words to ease your sorrow and pain. May you draw comfort from your parents' love and the many wonderful memories. Please remember there are many of us who stand ready to help in any way possible. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Much love,
~ Pam Kulin and Jim Rogers and Ray, Jess and Reid
Seattle WA
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March 23, 2009
Although our son, Connor, was only in Ann's classroom for one year, she made first grade a special and magical time for him. Through Ann, our family acquired Katie as a babysitter for a summer. Our boys still remember the adventures they all shared that summer. We were all very saddened to hear of Ann and Mike's deaths. A special family has been changed forever and we share in your sense of loss. Our thoughts are with the Torpy family and with all of the staff and children at Denali during this sad time.
~ Allen, Laura, Peter, Connor Moma, Anchorage, Alaska
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March 22, 2009
Dear Family of Mike and Ann,
May the lord strengthen you in your hour of loss and please receive this humble note with the love intended. Reading all of these guest book entries it's obvious what their impact was on this earth and the amount of love they shared with so many others. Be very proud and fortunate to have shared that love.
~ Phil McLaughlin, Formerly GF, Mt. Now - Aubur, Washington
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March 22, 2009
Kevin, Matthew, Conor, Stephanie & Katie,
Our hearts break for your tragic loss. Please know that our love, thoughts and prayers are with all of you; and, Stephanie, if there is anything we can do, please, please let us know.
Love,
~ Earl & Sherry Goggans, St. Marys, Georgia
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March 21, 2009
We cannot believe that this happened to two of our favorite people. Our thoughts and sympathy are with ALL the children. sincerely, The Ponticelli Family, Tony, Dolores, Stephen, Karen, Derek, Lea, Kenny, Vicki, Jaedynn, Jozlynn
~ Dolores Ponticelli, San Jose, California
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March 21, 2009
I grew up in Great Falls on 4th Ave N and 33rd St, not far from where Ann lived with her family. Our families were in Holy Family Parish together, and I went thru grade school thru 9th grade with Ann, at St Thomas and Great Falls Central (before we moved to Helena for 6 years). My Mother, Jane Garrity, has lived back in Great Falls a few blocks from where Ann grew up since 1968.Our family very well remembers her father and his tragic death in a plane crash in the early 60's.
I remember Ann as a very nice person who EVERYONE liked. My wife is a retired elementary and special ed teacher. From other's comments, I am sure that many would know Ann did two of the most important "jobs" in life, as a parent and teacher. Even in this tragedy of her early death, she has left a wonderful legacy in both her chosen professions.
Our family sends our deepest condolences to both Ann and Mike's families, and especially to Ann's Mother, Rose, as well.
~ John Philip Garrity, Missoula, Montana
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March 21, 2009
Ann,
You mentored, nurtured and loved 2 of my 3 sons for 6 years, as I know you loved all of your " children". I delighted in seeing my boys through your perceptive, caring eyes. I cried the moment I heard of this tragedy and many times since. I cry for the new children coming to Denali who will miss your care, and for your whole family whos pain must be overwhelming. I only met Mike briefly on a couple of occasions, but if he was the love of your life, he must have been an extraordinary person.
A part of you will always live on in the lives you have touched- We will always love you. Stephen, Remy, Tanner, and Davis Ortland
~ Stephen Ortland, Anchorage, Alaska
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March 21, 2009
I remember when Ann first came to Denali. I heard immediately what a wonderful teacher she was. I had two boys attending at the time, but neither one ended up in her class, though they did attend alongside Ann's daughters.
Ten years later, we are back at Denali, and our youngest son, Everett, has had the great fortune to be with Ann for nearly two years. I used to like to come in first thing in the morning to help and would have a chance to chat with Ann. The lights were usually dim because she knew that kept the children calmer first thing in the morning. Though I liked to talk to her myself, when the children entered the room, they would receive her fullest attention. One morning a child was upset, already having a bad morning, so Ann gently and quietly asked her if she had had breakfast. She was caring and kind, though not over indulgent. Her room was a wonderful mix of order and creativity, and she played her role in what seemed an effortless fashion but what we all know was deliberate and artful teaching.
My heart goes out to the family. We all long for an embodied relationship, for the opportunities to hear and smell and touch one another, to feel a loving embrace. And when that is gone, our hearts ache for just one more hug, one more word, one more dance.
If it is any solace, please know that these two wonderful people have made the world a better place and will never be forgotten.
~ Jackie Cason, Anchorage
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March 20, 2009
My youngest son, Jonas, was so lucky to be in Ann's class during his primary years at Denali. She had quite a crowd of boys to teach during those years - and did they have energy! In her calm, loving, patient way she challenged my son, and all these boys, to reach for their potential and beyond. I have also worked with Ann as the Denali counselor. I will always remember the way staff would gather in Ann's room at the end of the day, sharing their questions and concerns and benefiting from her wisdom. She is deeply missed. To Kevin, Mathew, Conner, Stephanie and Katie, and all who loved Ann and Mike, we wish you peace and comfort.
~ Janice Banta and family (Joe, Wade, Tore and Jonas)
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March 20, 2009
"I touch the future. I teach." Christa McAuliffe
Ann was a very fine teacher and so was Mike. Stumped? I met Mike at the school one afternoon and learned something from him. That makes him a "teacher" to me.
I learned that romance, love and devotion still exist in today's world. I also learned that love can be as fresh as it was when a couple first meets and falls in love.There was no question in my mind when I left the school that day that the love I saw would last until and throughout eternity.
I miss Ann's smile and her encouraging words. I miss peeking through the window watching her teach. I miss seeing the way her students watched her as she was teaching.
Families of teachers share them with the most precious resource we have, our children. My thanks to Ann and Mike's children for sharing Ann with us at Denali. She was a blessing to our school and our lives.
~ Summer Kerr, Anchorage, Alaska
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March 20, 2009
A few months ago Mike Torpy came into my life and made a mark forever in my mind and heart. We worked together on a pipeline project in Alaska. He impressed me as a soft-spoken, thoughtful, and kind person with a very wry sense of humor. He always made time to talk with me and would ask questions about my family. He often added a bit of humor to my answers and our ensuing discussions. He talked to me about the life he loved in Alaska - asking me now and then when I'd be moving to Anchorage. It felt as if I was being asked by a friend to come visit him at his family's home. Mike and I shared the same office so we were often in each other's circle during the work day. I can remember him speaking on the phone to Ann, telling her how he loved her, one time telling Ann "you got my motor running and I can't turn it off." He was obviously deeply in love with Ann and his family as I heard him talking often to Ann about his love. Working with Mike and getting to know him has been a milestone in my life. As I type this entry, I'm only a desk away from Mike's desk…the loss I feel is painful, the emptiness overwhelming. I'll forever miss the oh-so-very-human touch Mike added to my life and our workplace. I'll miss it but I'll also remember it well, hoping I can bring the same sort of gentle, kind, and thoughtful humanity to the lives of others that Mike did to mine. I’ll be thinking of Mike and Ann often. Blessings to Mike and Ann and their families.
~ Victor Gordon, Las Vegas, Nevada
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March 19, 2009
To Katie-we are thinking of you and send our deepest condolences to you and all of your family. -Mark, Janet, and Mariah
~ Savoie Family, Anchorage, Alaska
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March 19, 2009
Last night I cast my eyes into the northern skies
and through parted clouds to my delight
two radiant stars did shine so bright.
Ann and Mike Torpy, we miss you.
The Larson Family
~ Richard Larson, Anchorage, Alaska
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March 19, 2009
Dear Torpy Family,
My son had your Mom as a teacher for 3 years. I spent time in the classroom and came to appreciate her calmness, kindness, sense of humor, and incredible patience. She had a special gift of teaching and I'm sure somehow she was an even better Mom. She connected positively with so many people and children. Our hearts are heavy but we feel very blessed to have known her. Our prayers are with you.
~ Julie Osgood, Anchorage, Alaska
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March 19, 2009
Torpy Family,
I feel privilege to volunteer in her classroom. Ann was such a nice/sweet teacher to my son David. My heart ached for the loss of Ann. She will be deeply missed by our family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult moment.
~ Marissa Cason, Anchorage, Alaska
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March 19, 2009
Ann Torpy was a God send to my daughter, Delecia Ward. Ann was a believer in my daughter's ability to be successful and would not allow anything else. I often freted when my phone would display Michael Torpy at night as I knew... Delecia had did it again. When Ann decided to move Delecia's directly in front of her to ensure that she completed her work, she expressed her concerns regarding Delecia's feelings regarding this move. Ann was delighted after hearing Delecia tell a friend that she preferred sitting in front of her. Delecia constantly tested Ann's patience, and Ann never failed the test. Delecia knew and I knew that Mrs. Torphy cared about her success.
Delecia experienced a non-stop crying episode last night, and I am sure that more will follow as she adjust to the idea that Mrs. Torphy is no longer with us. However, I will ensure that she always remember her primary teacher and her expectations of success that she required.
May God Bless!
~ Leslie Vines, Anchorage, Alaska
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March 19, 2009
To the Torpy Family,
My children are currently at Denali and although they never had your Mom as a teacher, she was clearly a much loved part of the Denali family. You should be very proud of her. May the Lord give you strength to get you through this time of sadness.
~ Michelle Conrad, Anchorage, Alaska
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March 19, 2009
Torpy Family,
I send my deepest condolences during this hard time. I do not know you guys personally but as i read the article my heart ached as i have been through a similiar thing. I hope you guys treasure the memories you have.
Best wishes.
~ Amber Lile, Anchorage, Alaska
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March 19, 2009
Dear Torpy Family,
I feel so grateful for your family. Ann was a special light in my life as the teacher for my youngest daughter and as a colleague at Denali. She touched the lives of so many children, families, and educators with her kindness and patience. May you feel their presence in your hearts and find comfort in the days ahead.
~ Allison Wilson, Anchorage, Alaska
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March 19, 2009
Torpy Family:
I Knew your Mom in Jr High and High School
She was a quiet person but she loved to have fun.I am sorry to hear of her and your Dads tragic passing. My prayers are with you.
~ Patricia Zale-Pullen, Waterville, Washington
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March 18, 2009
We were all so very sad to hear the tragic news of the loss of Ann and Mike. I shared lots of wonderful times with Mike as we both worked at learning tunes. Our little band played at the Anchorage Folk Festival and I remember how much fun it was playing with Mike's dad in the audience our first year. I will remember Ann fondly as a very encouraging and kind person. Both Mike and Ann were very proud of their children and spoke of their accomplishments and activities often. Our family sends you our deepest sympathies.
God Bless,
Brian Walsh and Donna Fearey family
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March 18, 2009
To the Torpy Family
As an attending firefighter to the accident, my thoughts were instantaneously with the family of the couple. My deepest sympathies and most heartfelt prayers are with you all during this time of loss. Rev 21:3,4
~ Chilliwack, British Columbia
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March 18, 2009
I first met Mike as we both traveled to Adak for a job in 1998. Our friendship began there and only deepened as time progressed. We hunted, fished, canned fish, did home repairs together and shared the trials and tribulations of raising kids roughly the same age. Ann was always supportive to her family and a joy to be around. There arent many times in your life you get the chance to meet quality people the caliber of both of Mike and Ann and their family. I will miss my friend. But I knew he would find a way to excuse never finishing that violin.
~ Rick Rydell, Anchorage, Alaska
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March 18, 2009
Dear Torpy family: Neither of my two sons had Ann as their teacher, but just from talking with other teachers and walking the halls at Denali, it is pretty apparent that Ann was highly respected and well loved. She was a true mentor and a cherished educator. Denali will mourn her loss for some time. We are thinking of you during this sad time and hope you find comfort in knowing how you are in so many people's hearts and thoughts.
~ Donna and Jeff Logan, Anchorage, Alaska
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March 18, 2009
We are so saddened to hear of your loss. We read the article in the ADN and thought Ann looked familiar. My husband and I live in Anchorage (since '79) and raised our children here. We are originally from Great Falls, MT. Had no idea Ann was living up here in AK. I went to grade school with Ann Devine and graduated HS '65 in GTF. I remember what a sweetheart she was in grade school. Called my mother in GTF who knows Rose Devine and understands she is in nursing care in GTF. My mother Helen is calling some of Rose's old friends to remember Ann.
Sounds like they had a wonderful life, fabulous children, and will be sorely missed. We are truly saddened.
~ Gwen Hanley, Anchorage, Alaska.
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March 18, 2009
I feel blessed to have had the privilege to hang out with Mike several years ago at the Irish sessions at Suzi's Woolies. He added even more life to those sessions, and he was always so helpful whenever we needed it. My condolences to his family on the loss of Mike & Ann.
~ Karen Padgett, Anchorage, Alaska.
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March 18, 2009
My deepest sympathies on the loss of your beloved parents. My niece is currently a student in your mother's class. Our family have been going through challenging times and Mrs. Torpy provided a stable, loving and nuturing learning environment for our precious girl. We share in your loss of such a wonderful mother and teacher.
~ Penny Nauheim Sbicca, Coeur d'Alene, Idaho
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March 18, 2009
Torpy family, I am so very sorry to hear of your loss and pray you find strength in each other during this time.
Connor and Sherry please know we are thinking of you two. Please let us know if there is anything we can do. Your friends in Alaska- Amy and Lesley
~ Amy Hampton, Anchorage, Alaska
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March 18, 2009
My son had Ann Torpy as a teacher for several years at Denali Elementary. She was a kind, thoughtful and talented teacher, the type every parent hopes will teach their child. I am sure she touched many young lives, as she did my son, and I hope her own children realize the contributions she made and the good work she did.
~ Willis Lyford, Anchorage, Alaska
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March 18, 2009
I feel blessed that I grew up on the same street as Mike and our time together from Kindergarten on. I will always remember his big friendly smile every time that we would meet in Butte or Alaska. He will be missed. I want to express my Sincere Condolences to Mike & Ann's Families from all of my family.
~ Larry Bowser, Sterling, Alaska
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March 18, 2009
Seldom do we meet people who touch our hearts the way that Mike and Ann did. I'll miss my cup of tea with Mike and a laugh about him speaking Irish now that he was a Irish citizen. I'll miss also Ann's quiet and calm friendship. Both of them the "be there when you need them" kind of people. My heart aches with you...
~ Lisa Caress-Beu, Anchorage, Alaska
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March 18, 2009
My condolences to the family of Mike and Ann. I enjoyed working with Mike and meeting his wife, Ann. He was enthusiastic about life and enjoyed sharing his thoughs on it. He and Ann will be missed.
~ Charlotte Cookingham, Eagle River, Alaska
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March 18, 2009
To Kevin, Matthew, Conor, Stephanie, Katie, Jennifer, Jennifer, Sherry, and Eamonn----We are saddened by your loss and our thoughts are with you, and for each hour of your lonliness, we wish for you a day of comfort, for each minute of your grief, we wish for you a year of peace, and for every tear that falls, we wish for you a thousand reasons to smile at all the sweet memories. Love to you all from the Graff family. Allen, Marion, Kevin, Tricia, Garrett, Kayla, Dylan, Kristal and Bruce
~ Marion Graff, Hemet, California
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March 18, 2009
To the Torpy Family, We are thinking of you in this tragic time. Mike and Ann left so many people with wonderful memories of them. Our love and prayers are with you.
~ Kristi Kulin Palmer, Inverurie, Scotland
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March 18, 2009
How very sad I am to hear of the tragic death of Ann and her husband. Ann was my daughter's teacher for one year and I found her to be a very loving and caring teacher and mother. She spoke of her children every time we met and always had a smile. She had the perfect temperment to be a teacher - one of the best in the Anchorage School District.
~ Coleen Anderson, Twentynine Palms, California
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March 18, 2009
My heart goes out to Mike and Ann's Family. I worked with Mike and met Ann at several company functions. I enjoyed them both. Mike's witty humor and enthusiasm for life was very refreshing. They will both be dearly missed.
~ Terrill, Eagle River, Alaska
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March 18, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
~ Sam Penney, Anchorage, Alaska
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March 18, 2009
To the Torpy Family,
Please know that many hearts are with you at this tragic time. We feel so far away here in Hope, B.C. and yet we feel so close in Spirit. May you find stength in the wonderful memories you are able to share of such fine people.
Yours, Sincerely,
~ Karen and Tim Cousins, Hope, British Columbia
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March 18, 2009
Torphy Family,
I worked with your Dad on the Tyonek Platform in Cook Inlet, He was very well liked and respected. I am sorry for your loss. Hang in there and try to remember the good times, as hard as it must be.
Respectfully Yours
Robert Quigley
~ Robert Quigley, Elliston, Montana

To know Ann and/or Mike is to know...

These are quotes that people wrote at the Anchorage memorial and at Denali Elementary.

To know Ann is to know "a lovely gracious friend. As a colleague, a friend, my sons teacher, she was truly a wonderful being. She will live on through us all."

To know Ann and Mike is to know "how many people one can touch in life (and I just need to keep working much harder to get close to it but I know it's very hard to touch THAT MANY)."

To know Ann is to know "you can read and feel okay with who you are."

To know Mike is to know "that my beer glass will always be full."

To know Ann and Mike is to know "the embrace of a warm hug."

To know Ann is to know "joy and patience and kindness, and to make positive out of the negative. And to accept her students for the way they are, and be ok with it."
To know Ann is to know "wonderful parents."

To know Ann and Mike is to know "how wonderful parents should be. To see their wonderful children is a reflection on their greatness."

To know Ann is to know "the powers of kindness and patience."

To know Ann is to know "more than one person could ever do!"

To know Ann and Mike is to know "Good food, good conversation, good music, good stories, good beer!"

To know Ann is to know "that she is safe in heaven and she was my teacher."

To know Ann is to know "that for 6 1/2 hours each day, my children had an example of a calm, patient person to emulate - no matter how hectic life was at home."

To know Ann is to know "Mrs. Torpy was a great teacher to me. She would always give me lessons when I needed them"

To know Ann is to know "a gentle and beautiful heart."

To know Ann is to know "fairness and happyness."

To know Mrs. Torpy is to know "peace and kindness. I loved her and I will miss her."

To know Ann and Mike is to know "their daughter Katie and the patience she has on teaching her passion to little girls, is to acknowledge how much care and love she grew up with, to acknowledge the quality of parents and family she came from, and be comfort and happy for the beautiful young she is."

To know Ann is to know "to be reassured that everything is going to be ok." -Mary Beth

To know Ann is to know "someone who had their true calling."

To know Ann is to know "the ultimate comfortable support you need and the best way to hold a baby."

To know Ann is to know "radiant kindness and presence."

To know Ann and Mike is to "have two people who were so worth knowing and to call friends."

To know Mike is to know "high adventure with a zest for trying new things."

To know Ann is to know "endless patience and beautiful quilting."

The following are from member's of Denali Staff;

To know Ann is to know "the feeling of strength, confidence and passion." - Jasmin Wilson

To know Ann is to know "someone who is cheerfully willing to take on more and complete those tasks with incredible organization." - Helen O'Harra

To know Ann is to know her soft-spoken, calm, peaceful presence, combined with a warm sense of humor and easy laugh. To know Ann is to know beauty." - Gail Somerville

To know Ann is to know "the sound of a gentle breeze caressing a Japanese Willow tree." - Patti Welch

To know Ann is to know "the demure blossoming of a vivid yellow daffodil." - Dawnmarie Riley

To know Ann is to know "the calm relief from the shade of a tree on a hot summer day." - Craig Moyer

To know Ann is to know "the kindness of a smile." - Sonya Davis

To know Ann is to know "the beauty of pastel colors on a spring day." - Tami Phelps

To know Ann is to know "that I could always count on her to turn her attendance in on time...in all my years at Denali, not once was she late! ;-)" -Angie Oathout

To know Ann is to know "I want to be like her when I grow up. :)" - Denise Demetree

To know Ann is to know "patience in the face of what ever life brings." - Shawn Horning

To know Ann is to "have your life enriched forever by her love, encouragement, intellect, down to earth realness and kind, thoughtful actions." - Kate Michaels

To know Ann is to know "her sweet sensational Aloha smile, and her tender loving heart, that cares for others." - Ardis L. Mutini

To know Ann is to know "the warmth of the sun." - Kelsey Chalker

To know Ann is to know "genuine friendship." - Marilyn Woods

To know Ann is to know "the comfortable, rich feeling of her endless wisdom." - Gretchen Nelson

To know Ann is to know "the calm strength of a deep blue ocean." - Paula Davis

To know Ann is to "be in the presence of joy and peace." - Diane Harps

To know Ann is to know "a lively calm." - Beth McKay

To know Ann is to "experience unending patience." Irene Bortnick

To know Ann is to "see a mischievous twinkle in her eye." - Brooke Hull

To know Ann is to "be enfolded ad buoyed up by the warmth in her voice." - Melissa Mathis

To know Ann is to know "the humility and gentleness of a true Montessorian." - Bev Grogan

To know Ann is to know "the true meaning of a Friend." - Jeanette Hickok

To know Ann is to know "the patience of a saint." - Eva Wissmann

To know Ann is to know "that someone is always on your side." - Laurie Sinnott

To know Ann is to know "loving kindness." - "Love is patient, love is kind." - Janice Banta

To know Ann is to know "the wisdom of well considered words." - Celia Foley

To know Ann is to know "Dedication and Compassion." - Julie Pierce

To know Ann is to know "the joy of the first spring blossom pushing through the snow." - Karen Glavinic

To know Ann is to know "that her smile was very rewarding and she always smiled. I will always miss her and that wonderful smile. Please smile for her :) and to everyone - we all need a good smile :) :) :)." - Eddy Pershing

To know Ann is to know "there are women we well all, always, be sisters with. Women who share their lives, as mothers, wives and teachers with you as if you are sisters. Women whom you feel connected to by the twinkle in her eye as she says hello, and the warmth of her soft voice as she exclaims in surprise. I can still see her glancing guiltily around before she leans in to whisper some charmingly hilarious anecdote about our husbands, in that curiously 'Irish Way.'" - Robin Walker

To know Ann is to "feel blessed." - Chris Scally

To know Ann is to know "the earth: patient, stable with some delightful surprises." - Becky Harrison-Drake

To know Ann is to know "someone very special. Every now and then someone comes into your life, like Ann, and you know you have been blessed. I feel so lucky to have worked with her." - -Louise Hagel

To know Ann is to "feel her quiet strength." - Barbara Stratton

To know Ann "was to know grace. Whenever I needed anything -- materials, advice, a laugh, chocolate , or a great place to hike -- I knew there was a woman in Room 187 who would make time for me." - Jackie Morrisey

To know Ann is to know "the 'fruits of the Spirit.' Peace, love, joy, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, faithfulness, and self-control." - "Kim Robuck

To know Ann is to know "the spontaneous feeling of joy." - Lisha Fontanez

To know Ann is to know "she is a woman of her WORD. Her word is her bond. She has been faithful over all the years I've known her. " - Deborah Harris

To know Ann is to know "the gentle power of kindness." - Allison Wilson

To know Ann is to know "genuine kindness simply from her smile, her caring and her thoughtful words; Also, Ann's listening ear, her gentle touch, and her ability to inspire acceptance and compassion for fellow human being from everyone she has touched." - Deborah Aman

To know Ann "was like receiving a kiss from God." Mardena Williams

To know Ann is to "remember her kind, gentle, loving spirit." - Phyllis Anderson

To know Ann is to know "gentle peace that fills the heart. " - Keith Harjehausen

To know Ann is to know "a friendly face in the crowd." - Robynn Davis

To know Ann is to know "someone that is 'As good as it gets'...Ann made us want to be better people." - Chuck Stafford

To know Ann is to know "the gentle rhythm and peace of a soothing lullaby." - Tamara Cooke

Mike and Ann Torpy, 61, died the afternoon of March 12th, 2009 in a traffic accident near Vancouver B.C, Canada.

Ann Rosella Devine was born June 15, 1947 in Townsend, Montana. Ann received a B.A. in Elementary Education from Carroll College, Helena, Montana and Montessori, Chicago, Illinois.

Ann was married to Michael Francis Torpy in 1970 at St. Peter and Paul Church, Great Falls, Montana.

Mike was born May 20, 1947 in Kalispell, Montana. Mike received a B.S. in Microbiology from Montana State University, Bozeman, Montana and Ph.D. in Environmental Engineering from Utah State University, Logan, Utah. Mike served in the Army between 1971 and 1973. Ann and Mike resided in Anchorage Alaska for 13 years, Ann was a Montessori Elementary teacher at Denali Elementary, and Mike was an Engineering Manager at Hawk Consulting/Alyeska Pipeline. Ann's many passions included knitting, walking, reading, and her children (family and classroom). Mike enjoyed Irish history, home brewing, playing the button accordion, and attending Irish gatherings in their area. Ann and Mike will be dearly missed by their children: Kevin Joseph (1972), Matthew Thomas (1975), Conor Michael (1977), Stephanie Ann (1986), Kathleen Rose (1987) and their grandson, Eamonn Jakob (2008). Ann is survived by mother, Rose (Great Falls, MT), sister, Cathy (Bozeman MT); brother, Pat (Bozeman, MT); and brother, Dennis (Great Falls, MT). Mike is survived by his father, Tom (Butte, MT), sister, Peggy (Butte, MT) brother, Tom (Butte, MT); and sister Jayne (Dallas, TX).